HOW TO ACTUALLY NOT CARE ABOUT ANYONE BUT YOURSELF
"Love your neighbor as you love yourself. if you don't know how to love yourself, you cannot love your neighbor"
- Clarence
If you're thinking like this "I don't need anyone in the world, all I need is myself" you're in the right place. Trust me, I know how it feels to think like you're the only one in the world but, before we move on to how to stay like this, I'll like to tell you that this post will disappoint you.
I often hear people say they don't care about people, they don't need people and even go as far as explaining how they have survived on their own and how they have succeeded in surviving on their own. I legit admire that but today, I'll help you understand how much you need people and I hope at the end of this post, you learn to Value people and the value they bring to you.
Let's take a very fair scenario, you being the superhuman that can do everything on their own. have you ever thought of things this way? The house you live in, Did you build it? let's imagine you did build it by paying PEOPLE YOU DON'T NEED to build it. Let's say you woke up in the morning and ate food you cooked on your own but failed to understand that you bought the gas that SOMEONE YOU DON'T NEED manufacturing and you used the foodstuffs planted and nurtured by PEOPLE YOU DON'T NEED or lets say you are about to go out and you get your phone that was manufactured by PEOPLE YOU DON'T NEED to check the time you know nothing about how SOMEONE YOU DON'T NEED to calculate it to suit your location and then entered a car you didn't manufacture and paid SOMEONE YOU DON'T NEED to take you to your location. I believe you don't need more explanation or scenarios to understand what I'm trying to say. I feel it's ungrateful of you to believe that you're superhuman and can do all things by yourself. Truth be told, this ungratefulness is to no one but yourself. Whatever it is that you practice that may feel like self-love is nothing but selfishness.
Not on till you love and appreciate yourself, you cannot love or appreciate anyone or anything. There's a thin line between self-love and selfishness. Please don't join my Gang and shout self-love and SEXY that when you're just selfish. ABEG, I take God and Gun beg you!
DO YOU THINK SELFISHNESS AND SELF-LOVE CAN BE MISTAKEN?
DO YOU BELIEVE YOU DON'T NEED ANYONE??
HAS MY PREACHING TONIGHT TOUCH YOU? AND PLEASE, WHERE DID IT TOUCH YOU?
Please tell me what you think in the comment section below. Thank you for reading today's post, I love you, and stay SEXY!
yes, they can be mistaken. Self love has nothing to do with disregard for others, i feel that's a common mistake made in our generation.
ReplyDeleteit's literally impossible to survive on your own, i tried.
If we can understand the difference between being egocentric and loving yourself, the former is a result of insecurity and a cry for love.
eh i'm not sure where it touch but nice piece #thumbsup
lol. I legit love your honesty.
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