I SINCERELY CANNOT RELATE.
To be honest, relating with people around me just became the hardest thing in life.
Is it just me? Have you ever been in that position where you can barely relate with the people you once called friends? Just so you know, I’m there right now.
It’s been a year since I saw a couple of my friends and right now I’m around most of them and really, we have nothing to talk about. I no longer exist in their world. I tried starting a conversation with one of them lately and I swear, it was the longest 30 minutes of my entire life. I can already smell it that 2019 is gonna be the year that I’ll be creating a new circle and I hope it lasts (me that I’m saying this now, I can be in a room with you for a year and I won’t say anything to you if you don’t say anything to me).
At the early stage of this “I can’t Relate” something, I was quite worried that I’m loosing friends but I’m not anymore. Somehow, I feel it’s for the best.
Have you ever lost friends before?
How did you feel about it?
Was it actually for the best?
Did you meet anyone better than the previous friends?
Gist me. I’m curious.
Well I have a lot. I just concluded that keeping in touch was my weakness and I only tried to work on it for the people that are dear
ReplyDeleteOh great. Means I’m no the only one
DeleteIt happens. I've lost friends because of that too. Tried to force conversations but it didn't just work out. Well, I've learned to ket it be and still keep in touch if I can.
ReplyDeleteI’ll try to keep in touch tho. So everything will end clean.
DeleteIf it has to end sha.
DeleteI lost a lot of friends this year... At first, I thought it was my behavior but later I realized I was the one putting 90% investment into the friendship while they put 10%. I was happy when I realized there was nothing wrong with me. They just weren't interested in being friends with a queen like me��. Their problem��. I am my own best friend right now����
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwe!! I’m sure they have no idea what they’re missing.
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